It probably won’t surprise you to hear that you are often the biggest obstacle to your own trading success—and, really, to success in life overall. While this might sound like a harsh reality, taking responsibility for our own actions—especially the negative ones—is essential. In trading, much of this negativity stems from ourselves: our egos, our emotions, and the choices we make in the market.
But today, we’re going to flip that script. Instead of dwelling on the negatives, we’ll focus on turning them into positives. By breaking through these self-imposed barriers, you can unlock greater profits and cultivate a more balanced, happier life.
Think of the points below as links in a chain. A single weak link can break the whole chain, so each one must be strong.
Ego of the Mind
Trading is still male-dominated, and studies show that men often struggle more than women due to overconfidence. Behavioral economists Brad Barber and Terrence Odean documented this in their research “Boys Will Be Boys: Gender, Overconfidence, and Common Stock Investment.” Men’s higher confidence—partially driven by testosterone—can lead to taking unnecessary or oversized risks. Women, by contrast, are often more level-headed and disciplined with risk.
If you’re a man, this doesn’t mean you’re doomed, but it does mean you need self-awareness. Recognize when your ego or hormones are influencing your decisions. Think of yourself as Clark Kent, not Superman. Overcoming ego requires proper training, planning, discipline, and possibly guidance from a mentor.
Trade What You See, Not What You Think
Charts show clear signals, yet traders often act on what they think should happen rather than what the market is actually showing. It’s vital to stay disciplined and trade based on the evidence in front of you, not your assumptions. Avoid labeling yourself a “bull” or a “bear”—adapt to market conditions as they unfold, and don’t cling to a bias if the evidence suggests otherwise.
Patience
Successful traders practice extraordinary patience. And this isn’t just ordinary patience—it’s the ability to resist the pull of instant gratification. Markets reward those who can stand aside, let trades develop, and avoid micro-managing. Instant results are rare, and learning to wait is part of the strategy itself.
The Need to Be Right
Humans naturally crave being right, but in trading, this instinct can be financially disastrous. Many traders—especially beginners—hold losing trades simply because they don’t want to admit they’re wrong. Learning to cut losses decisively, without hesitation or ego, is critical. As Warren Buffett has famously said:
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I’ve Never Met a Profitable Day Trader
I get it—you want to be a “cool” day trader (yawn). But honestly, I’ve never met a consistently successful one. Think about why you got into trading in the first place: probably to have more freedom and enjoy life, right? So why are you glued to your screen all day chasing the next “exciting” trade?
The reality is that the more you trade, the harder it is to succeed. Numerous studies back this up. Frequent trading naturally leads to more randomness in your results because daily market movements are often just noise. On top of that, transaction costs pile up, cutting into any profits you might make. For more on this, check out my articles on high-frequency vs. low-frequency trading and why I dislike day trading.
Trading Is a Competition, Not a Game Against the Market
Most people forget that trading is essentially a competition against other people, not just the market. Think about it like this: if you played a sport believing your opponent was a computer game, would you play with the same drive as you would against a real human? Trading works the same way. If you frame it as “me versus them,” it builds competitive confidence and sharpens your skills. This mindset applies to sports, business, and finance alike—it transforms trading from an abstract “me vs. everything” scenario into a clear, winnable contest.
Focus on the Trade, Not the Money
Each trade should be about the quality of the trade itself, not the dollars gained or lost. Read that again.
Traders get too caught up in profits, losses, or missed opportunities instead of treating trading like a business, where every transaction contributes to the overall monthly results. Obsessing over money distracts you and damages your decision-making.
Think of trading like a sportsman approaches his game: focus on mastering the skill, not the scoreboard. Money only comes into play when you tally your results at the end of the year. By removing money from the immediate equation, you can focus entirely on honing your craft and making better decisions.
Similarly, avoid measuring results by percentages, pips, or short-term account performance. A better approach is using units or “R” (risk units based on your risk-to-reward ratio). I’ve written about the importance of measuring trading performance in R units, rather than percentages or pips—check that out here.
Conclusion
My trading courses are built on real-world experience and are designed to strengthen every link in your trading “chain.” Many educators focus only on the “next best entry strategy,” but even a perfect entry technique won’t save you if any link in your trading chain is weak. Strengthen all the links, combine them with a solid strategy, and you’ll set yourself up for success in the markets.
So, here’s my question to you: what’s your weakest link? Leave a comment below and be honest with yourself.
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